Bondage is the consensual act of restraining one’s partner during sex or foreplay for sexual gratification, arousal and pleasure.
People enjoy bondage for many different reasons and sex isn’t always the primary reason. Most times it’s the control, power and dominance someone can have over their partner. As for the submissive, they get pleasure from giving themself to their dominant. They may do it because they want to please their partner, they like the feeling of being out of control of their own pleasure, or they like the idea of being ‘used,’ even if it’s in a consensual manner. There are also people who practice self-bondage during masturbation.
In terms of the actual tangible bondage sex toys, the answer is yes, they are safe. Just like all sex toys, bondage toys are safe when used properly. However, there is another element to bondage one must be aware of which is the emotional and psychological aspect. First and foremost, bondage play should ALWAYS be consensual. Both parties should also be on the same page about the role playing, and the level of impact and pain will occur. Additionally, they should agree on a safe word in which the submissive can use to let the dominant know to stop what they’re doing. After any type of consensual bondage play which inflicts pain or impact, aftercare is important. Aftercare refers to a post-sex check in to make sure your partner is okay. For example, this would probably be a good time to grab an ice pack for any bumps or bruises, grab a comfy blanket or offer something to drink. By the same token, do not forget the dominants need aftercare as well. They have been known to have feelings of guilt for inflicting pain and causing physical harm once the deed is done.
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