How to Use Harnesses & Strap-Ons

how to use harness strap ons

Take all the tantalizing possibilities your current sex life offers, then multiply them by two: that’s what you get when you add harnesses and strap-ons to your sex toy collection. These toys can be used by anyone (no matter their anatomy or gender identity) who wants to explore penetration in new ways.

Learning how to use harnesses and strap-ons can be intimidating at first, so get familiar with the basics:

Get set up. Every harness is a little different. A classic leather or PVC strap-style harness might be your cup of tea, or you might prefer a more casual shorts-style harness. It all depends on what makes you feel sexy.

Once you find the harness you prefer, choose a dildo from your toy stash or buy one that your partner likes. Then, buy the correct size o-ring to secure it in place in the strap-on harness.

Once you’re comfortable with how to use your strap-on harness, you can experiment with different styles and sizes.

Strap it on. Read the instructions and make sure your harness is on comfortably and securely. If you’re not used to having an extra appendage, get comfortable with the look and sensation. Wear it around the house and learn how to feel sexy and confident while wearing it.

Practice thrusting on your own. If you have a penis and are using the harness to strap on a hollow dildo over your member, you probably won’t need too much practice before you’re confident in how to use your new strap-on. But if you’ve never been the thrusting partner before, test out your moves solo first. (This is also a good time to check that the o-ring, harness straps and dildo are secure.) It may take a few practice sessions to get the hang of it.

Enjoy the ride. The most exciting part of learning how to use a strap-on harness, of course, is that you get to explore new positions and new connections with your partner. Start with simple positions, either in missionary or with your partner on top, then move on to positions that require more stamina. Let awkward moments happen, laughing through them brings you closer to your partner, which makes for even steamier sex.

At Cupid’s Box, we have a wide selection of harnesses and strap-ons go choose from, plus all the accessories to get you going. Explore our site and don’t hesitate to reach out to our customer service team with questions.

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