Exploring New Unknowns
Whether you’ve tried anal before or you’re new to the game, one rule has to be followed. You must always prepare before doing anal. Failing to do so can send your loved one to the ER. At Cupid’s Box, we offer high-quality anal sex toys that you and your partner can enjoy with one another. Here’s how to prepare to play with them.
Step 1: Clean the Area
While the body typically cleans itself, when you’re playing around with anal, you need to make sure everything is clean. The recipient should thoroughly wash the area. The one performing anal should also wash themselves or the toy that they intend to use.
This limits the risk of any infections that may occur during anal.
Step 2: Lubrication
One of the most important steps of anal is lubricating. Unlike other parts of the body, the anus and the anal cavity does not produce lubrication. It’s a dry area. If you attempt to insert anything into your partner’s anal cavity that isn’t lubricated, then it’s going to hurt.
Their skin will chafe and they’ll likely bleed.
Toys need to be lubricated just as much as a man’s penis or fingers. There are plenty of different lubricants from which to choose. Your partner may enjoy a warming or cooling lubricant in the area.
Even if you’re using a self-lubricated condom, you should still apply plenty of lubricant. The lubricant should be applied to the toy, condom, or penis as well as around the anus.
Step 3: Start Slow
Even veterans of anal know that they need to start slow. The anus is an orifice that tightens back up quickly, even after playing around with it. Each time you perform anal, you’re going to find that it’s a tight experience. This is one of the many reasons why couples enjoy anal so much.
It’s always a good idea to either use your fingers or anal toys to slowly start stretching the anal cavity. Anal beads, in particular, are a great method for slowly opening the area up. Your lover will likely enjoy the slow stretch.
Once your lover is able to take the size that you need them to, then you can insert the toy or your penis. Each entry should initially be slow, and you’ll want to keep applying lubricant until the area is well-lubricated.
Step 4: Aftercare
After you’ve had your fun with anal, aftercare is just as important. You’ll need to thoroughly clean the area once more. Toys and body parts should also be thoroughly cleaned to limit infections.
Be Safe and Have Fun
Anal can be a lot of fun for those who follow these steps. Enjoy it!